Post by army king on Jun 8, 2021 12:35:47 GMT
Well, let's have a home truth here, I ain't want any of you live in dreams cuz life aint one.
World is unfair. We are all equally UNEQUAL.
And that is the TRUTH. Face it or live in your dreams.
You can't look like your fav actor. You can't have the IQ of your college topper. You can't be taller than that girl. You can't have the genes to gain muscles and have a endomorphic structure like those powerlifters.
BUT,
Maybe your fav actor is insecure about his intelligence. Maybe that topper is insecure about his looks. Maybe that tall girl has back issues with worse posture. Maybe that endomorphic powerlifter wanted to have an aesthetic physique.
But you won't ALWAYS be compensated for your weakness in certain departments. Or "maybe" you can win the lottery with near perfection.
In other words, this world has infinite possibilities, some could be, majority could be, or none could be in YOUR FAVOUR.
Maybe that guy who was born disabled (mentally and physically) got nothing. Maybe that little baby didn't even get to live life and died in first 24 hours. Maybe that guy looks good (but is gay who's into some weird fetishes).
You gotta accept the fact, this world is unfair.
Yet, many of you first try to live in illusions,
then you feel angry and never accept the fact that we are given less in that particular department ("I'm bald and girls don't like me")
then you try to bargain for a small percentage of that particular thing (5'3 guy praying to get at least 2 more inches to make him more average like)
then you get DEPRESSED about that particular thing (diagnosed with cancer, "maybe my whole life has come to an end")
in the end, you will ACCEPT this.
See?
That's a long cycle (known as 'Cycle of grief')
1. Denial 2. Anger 3. Bargaining 4. Depression 5. Acceptance
And what did this cycle cost us?
TIME TIME TIME TIME TIME.
That's a hella lot of time.
And you'll do this shit every time, you breakup, get insecure about smth, etc..
And some people will never get out of the 4th stage of this cycle. They'll spend their WHOLE lives devoted to depression.
This, my friend, is a recipe to failure .
World is unfair. We are all equally UNEQUAL.
And that is the TRUTH. Face it or live in your dreams.
You can't look like your fav actor. You can't have the IQ of your college topper. You can't be taller than that girl. You can't have the genes to gain muscles and have a endomorphic structure like those powerlifters.
BUT,
Maybe your fav actor is insecure about his intelligence. Maybe that topper is insecure about his looks. Maybe that tall girl has back issues with worse posture. Maybe that endomorphic powerlifter wanted to have an aesthetic physique.
But you won't ALWAYS be compensated for your weakness in certain departments. Or "maybe" you can win the lottery with near perfection.
In other words, this world has infinite possibilities, some could be, majority could be, or none could be in YOUR FAVOUR.
Maybe that guy who was born disabled (mentally and physically) got nothing. Maybe that little baby didn't even get to live life and died in first 24 hours. Maybe that guy looks good (but is gay who's into some weird fetishes).
You gotta accept the fact, this world is unfair.
Yet, many of you first try to live in illusions,
then you feel angry and never accept the fact that we are given less in that particular department ("I'm bald and girls don't like me")
then you try to bargain for a small percentage of that particular thing (5'3 guy praying to get at least 2 more inches to make him more average like)
then you get DEPRESSED about that particular thing (diagnosed with cancer, "maybe my whole life has come to an end")
in the end, you will ACCEPT this.
See?
That's a long cycle (known as 'Cycle of grief')
1. Denial 2. Anger 3. Bargaining 4. Depression 5. Acceptance
And what did this cycle cost us?
TIME TIME TIME TIME TIME.
That's a hella lot of time.
And you'll do this shit every time, you breakup, get insecure about smth, etc..
And some people will never get out of the 4th stage of this cycle. They'll spend their WHOLE lives devoted to depression.
This, my friend, is a recipe to failure .